A Change of Heart (1998)

Dr. Jim Marshall is the perfect husband and father, respected and admired in his community. But Jim is living a lie that he has tried to keep suppressed through this marriage, but finally Jim's lie rips through the facade when his wife Elaine catches him in bed with his lover--a young man. This film is an honest, moving account of a woman struggling to cope with the discovery that her husband, the father of her two children, the man that she has worked with side by side, is gay. The movie sees all four members of the family struggle to integrate this new complication into their family life.